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Shanghai Marriage Market

6/25/2018

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Singles' stats attached to umbrellas in People's Park
Each weekend in People's Park, Shanghai, local parents and grandparents flock to the pop-up Marriage Market.  Some clip small posters onto clotheslines; others attach them onto opened umbrellas resting on the ground.  The posters are chock full of descriptions about their child's or grandchild's stats.  Age.  Height.  Weight.  Hobbies.  Job.  Home ownership.  Sometimes even income.  The names and pictures are generally withheld.  It's the Chinese elders' Match.com equivalent.  They are modern day matchmakers with primitive methods.

Walking through the market, there are heated discussions about the young adults and whether or not they might have a match made in heaven.  There are actual matchmakers, paid to broker deals for families.  They charge a monthly fee to hang a poster for the family and tacitly try to promote those who pay them.  Then there are individuals who go out each weekend, hoping to find a husband or wife for their children.  Sometimes blind dates are arranged.  Infrequently the children acquiesce and go on a date, just to get their parents (or aunts, uncles, grandparents) off their backs.  

The market is mostly a social gathering, an excuse for the elder generation to come together and schmooze.  Granted, there are some serious parents out there with notebook and pen in hand, taking notes and contact information.  However, the incidence of actual marriages that come from these informal discussions and information trades is quite low.  The market mostly serves to help parents feel like they are playing a role in their own future; one of the Chinese goals in life is to see one's child married and to have grandchildren.

Join me at the Shanghai Marriage Market in People's Park on the next Chow Fun Tour!

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    Lauren Drazen

    I have traveled all over the world, including adventures in China, Uganda, Taiwan, Thailand, Cambodia, Argentina, Vietnam, Israel, Jordan, Turkey, Greece, Italy, Spain, France, Switzerland, England, Denmark, Sweden, Russia, Costa Rica, Jamaica, St. Lucia, Dominican Republic, Mongolia, Netherlands, Canada and Mexico!  My greatest love is introducing Americans to the sites, traditions and people of China.  My hope is to give travelers a new lens through which to see the world.

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